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August 7, 2011

Just Lie… You Will Get The Girl!

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Written by: Jack Tha Kid
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When you sense a discrepancy in interest level, it’s time to pack the fcuk up and hibernate for a minute. You know what I’m saying fellas; that girl you’re just crushing on so damn hard, but then it finally hits you that you are way more into her than she is into you. Sometimes it hits you in the face like a sledge hammer and sometimes like a feather, but somehow it stings the same god damn way.

Here is the remedy if there is one. Pack the fcuk up and move away, symbolically anyway. You don’t got to really move obviously, but contact-wise you gotta act as if you just schlepped all the way to Australia or something. Reason being, even when the fairer sex isn’t necessarily feeling you, they still love that attention you give em by calling them up and beating down their door. Now to you crazy bastards out there, I’m not talking to you… the stalkers I mean.

Now listen to me good and listen to me clean. You gotta figure this out by using some observation techniques. If she was interested in you at one point but started to wane a bit, it’s probably cause you came at it too hard and put this broad up on a pedestal, to which she accepted the role as your Master, Queen and Empress (in other words, you have given her the deed to your nutsack). Alternatively, If you just wanted her to be interested in you from the jump, but knew in your heart it was just your oversized ego telling you that, then bounce, run, jet, flee, or whatever the word you wanna use for getting the fcuk outta dodge is.

For the first situation, you gotta take back your balls and stop reaching out to her. Give it some time and if she starts to feel that urge to contact you, then you are back in play; if not then give it up and stay in hibernation. Who knows maybe at some point down the road she will reach out, but don’t count on it, just move on son. Have some meaningless sex with someone who will take you in… pun intended.

The saying “there are plenty of fish in the sea” isn’t a fallacy. Dudes, believe me when I tell you this. We are the ones that are in demand. Trust that. If you got any semblance of a job, or pretend to have one, you are in mutha fcukin play as a mutha fcuka. Don’t go out and rent no overpriced car either, just work on your, where you work and what you do for a living game and you will be fine. If there is one thing women have gotten adept at, it is peepin the dude frontin with the car he can’t afford. Yet they still haven’t mastered the art of telling if a dude is lying about what it is he does for a living. So like I said, get your job game tight and never over reach on the spot you bring her too, or she will know you ain’t no damn doctor or lawyer.

Oh yeah, and if you actually do have a job… congratulations my dude. You are just a looser if you don’t have a girl or can’t get one… sorry… just real talk.

I know I ended up treading into tangents there, but fcuk it, you know how I be, no one post can hold down Tha Kid. But still, back to the beginning, play the hold out game and see if she bites. If not, deuces and grab your best fishing rod and tightest job description and head for the sea.

Tha Kid out!

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Jack Tha Kid
Jack Richards, or Tha Kid as he is affectionately known; or maybe not… Either way, this man has some strong opinions about everything there is to be said when it comes to relationships, sex and style.  Always willing to give his advice to those willing and able to listen, he is an interesting and surely controversial Mind of Zadishe at www.jackthakid.com and columnist at www.whatblackmenwant.com.




  1. Lovin White

    I totally agree with you Kid…lol! I’ve become a liar because of women.

  2. Bubba

    Lying? Really? What has lying to a woman done for any man Black, White or Yellow, other than gain him something very temporary. If that is what you wish to gain with your first impression on a woman, good luck with your second impression! Real talk, from a real man.

  3. CeeJay

    STANDING OVATION!! Its not about lying Bubba, (simplify efforts) its about not giving your everything all at once. Many women (girls) are willing to accept that role as a mans “Master, Queen and Empress” its an honour but, when duty calls she fails to woman up cuz she didnt have to work for anything. Keeping it real.

  4. G

    From a woman’s prospective, Bubba is right. If you’re just playing the field and want something temporary, keep lying! You may get some a$$ a couple times if she believes your BS, but when she figures out your game, (and she will, whether she lets you know or not) she will move on without you! If you’re looking for something real, be real. I can’t speak for all of us, but I can work with honestly any day, I refuse to deal with lies ever!

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