Never say never? Well I’m saying never! I would never put my hand; open, closed or fist, to a woman. Mind you, I might take a chick by the shoulders and shake the weave outta her if she pushes all my wrong buttons, but I could never swing on a woman. Hit a woman like she was a dude?? To lay an actual beat down, as if fighting for my life in a prison yard? I can’t wrap my head around why that wouldn’t be a deal breaker for some of you women. Can’t be love.
So whats the deal ladies? If your man puts hands on you and messes up your pretty face, as long as he presents you with a “heartfelt” apology, and y’all share some birthday cake then It’s all good? I guess he didn’t really mean it. He’ll mean it next time though.
It goes both ways, and this by no means gives right for a woman to get physical with her man. We all should have learned that it means she likes you when she hits you and runs away. We left that back in the good ‘ol innocent days of grade school though. (Where some of us only played innocent). We have matured a whole lot since then… most of us! (Especially said innocent actors). Even in the heat of an argument, your head game has got to be on point fellas. So much so, that you preemptively exit from a situation that you foresee taking a turn for the worst. Be a thinking man. Always. It ain’t right to hit a woman, your father taught you that probably by way of “do as i say, not as i do!” Even if yo Daddy didn’t, I KNOW yo Mama did! What would your Mama say?
You know what I’m saying; jump out your Lambo and leave her trippin and cursing in there all by herself if you have to. Save yourself, and herself from ALL unfavorable circumstances. It’s never easy to do. In fact it’s always very difficult.
Tell me where you’re at with this people. My brother’s, can you really justify having to ‘check’ your lady with physical malice? My beautiful black women, can you excuse a ‘slip’ of the fist from your man when you to disagree?