Buy U A Drank?
I’m not one to go clubbing too often, but this Saturday night I decided to put on my best freak’em dress along with my sexiest pair of pumps, and I hit the town with my girls. Before leaving the house I ensured that my makeup was on point, not one hair was out-of-place, and I left the house looking and smelling like one dollar shy of a million bucks. After fighting through the bullsh*t of bouncers holding up the line-up I entered the club with my spirits on high because maybe tonight was the night that I’d meet a nice guy in the club. Enter the Fab Five. My girls and I are five financially stable, sensually sexy sistahs in stilettos, with a mean walk to match. I’d like to think that when my girls and I enter a room we command attention; whether it is good or bad…we get it in!
Each of us part ways and I head to the bar for a drink.
Of course, the bar is lined up with men each of which are just standing there sipping on something waiting to pounce on any woman who catches their eye as a passerby. While waiting patiently for the bartender, this guy approaches me and sparks up conversation. He offers me a drink and I accept since I was feeling thirsty after all. He politely compliments me on my outfit, asks me where I’m from, and how he and I can get familiar after the club. The conversation continues for a bit longer and then I tell him thank you for the drink and I proceed to walk towards the dance floor but he grabs my arm and asks me “…where do you think you’re going?” I tell him I’m going to the dance floor with my girls and he says “so you’re just going to leave like that? WTF! Give me back my $10”. I looked at him like he had lost his damn mind, but you know what I did… I gave that man back his $10 and an extra $1 as a tip. Boy Please!!
Why do men feel that when they buy a woman a drink they own them? The way I see it is if you offer a woman a drink you shouldn’t be offering it expecting for the woman to be yours for the night like this is some type of male dowry.
Missed my last post: The “Single” Father